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The Things Men Look for In a Long-Term Partner + Why Your First Date Outfit Matters

The Things Men Look for In a Long-Term Partner + Why Your First Date Outfit Matters

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Most of the women I work with tell me they want to find ‘a catch’ to settle down with. Let me define their definition of ‘a catch’. It’s someone who is ambitious, has average to more than average looks, confident in his own skin and most importantly, someone who is ready for a long lasting committed relationship. Sounds too good to be true? It’s not. These men may be elusive but they exist. In an exclusive Q&A with a successful start up founder, I asked him to tell us the things men love in a woman, the difference between a woman a guy dates vs one he marries and his top places to meet women.

1.      What are 3 things you look for in a woman?

a)      Looks, they do need to be attractive and maintain themselves through keeping fit

b)      Trust, somebody that doesn’t lie, somebody that has integrity

c)      Someone that can hold a conversation, has an opinion on things and has good general knowledge

2.      What’s the difference between girls you date and girls you potentially want to marry?

For me it’s been that we just haven’t got along, different interests, different beliefs or they didn’t have one of the top three things I’m looking for above.

3.      Some guys love the perks of a relationship but none of the commitment. Why do you think that is?

I think guys aren’t afraid of commitment, they are just afraid of committing to the wrong person.

Marriage is forever, you don’t want to get that wrong…

4.      Do you have any relationship regrets?

No, every relationship has its positives and negatives. Treasure the positive memories and learn from the negative.

5.      Have you ever friend zoned any women? If so, why?

I think a guy would only friend zone a girl if he wasn’t attracted to them. If they can make a good friend and are also attractive I would think that makes for a good life partner.

There is a reason you are friends with them, you get them and they get you, the only thing left is attraction.

6.      Where are top places to meet women?

Tinder or any type of internet dating, (insert blushing emojicon). I think internet dating has changed the game. It’s quicker, easier, you know they are single and looking.

It means if you are time poor you don’t have to waste your time going out prospecting. Personally I’m only free at nights and I’m not interested in finding a girl that has a big night life.

7.      In this day in age, is it ok for women to pursue the guy?

Yes! It’s attractive. Offer to pay for dinner too, the guy should still in my opinion pay for the first few dinner dates, but it’s nice to have a lady offer to pay.

8.      What’s the most attractive first date outfit you’ve seen?

Well it must be a dress that shows some skin but not too much. The dress a girl wears on the first date says to me if they are a long term girl or a good time girl.

I like quality clothes, silky bits and good craftsmanship. The dress is only the dress, it isn’t the outfit, shoes, jewellery, handbag, hair and makeup make the package. I think they should be appropriate to the occasion of the first date if not slightly over dressed but never underdressed.

9.      What’s one thing you want to tell women?

That I love them. They’re words I don’t use much, so to be able to say that is very meaningful.

10.  What’s your relationship status?

With a lovely lady for 7 months now. 

11.  What advice would you want to give woman?

If you are looking for love and you have a guy playing you, drop him. It’s better to be single and open to somebody than be distracted by someone that doesn’t appreciate you.

Also we all have a brand, your brand is what people think of when they mention your name. Work on your brand, be the brand you want in a guy and you will attract the guy that wants your brand.

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