What He Thinks When You Sleep With Him On The First Date

What He Thinks When You Sleep With Him On The First Date

Remember the 5 date rule about sex? Well apparently that was made up by some woman who wanted to use sex as bait to change her relationship status. It’s a bit controversial but relationships are never black and white anyway and so here, Adam tells us what he thinks when you sleep with him on the first date:

It really doesn’t matter when you sleep with us. Of course, being guys the sooner would be better but if you sleep with us on the first date, we won’t think you’re slutty (contrary to what other girl magazines tell you). Conversations do NOT go down like the following:

Ben: Hey so what happened to the chick you met at that bar last week?

Adam: Yea we went out, we slept together. She’s perfect but she put out so I’m never seeing her again. She’s perfect though. 

They just don’t happen because if he likes you, he’ll continue to see you. Girls just use the ‘Oh it didn’t work out because I slept with him too soon’ as an excuse when really, there are so many reasons it didn’t work out. 

I’m not advocating sex on a first date for selfish man reasons but if you wish to do it, we won’t judge you. In fact, it’s probably better to get it out of the way to see if you’re compatible that way. 

You may not agree and some other guy will tell you that guys like the chase or that you have to make him work for it blah blah blah but sex won’t win us over. 

It’s a debatable topic and many of you will probably send me hate mail but still, I’d love to know what you think. Leave a comment below. Thanks for reading  – Adam