Hey, welcome back to the channel! Today we’re talking about, what it means when a girl says she just wants to be friends. Because, it’s not always straightforward.
But before I get into it, I want you to know my Instagram is active again. So please give me a follow. And I’m also on TikTok so give me a follow, because I only have a sad, you know, 18 friends on there.
But let’s get it into it. What it means when a girl says she just wants to friends.
#1 – She doesn’t vibe with you romantically.
There’s no physical chemistry. Then you are friend zoned. Now, once your friend zoned, especially in the beginning when you meet someone, It’s very, very, very hard to get out of the friend zone. But there’s still ways. So if you want to know, leave me a comment and I’ll make another video about it.
#2 – Maybe you caught her at a bad time.
She’s going through a breakup right now, or you just don’t see you like that or, you know, she might be interested in someone else and waiting for something better to come along. Either way, she isn’t prioritising you as a romantic interest, and you should press pause now.
The worst thing you can do is be her friend, especially if you are interested in her romantically, the last thing you want to do is be her friend. You want to be the guy she’s interested in, you want to be the love interest. Don’t be the fallback guy, don’t be the guy who listens to her, you know, talking about the problem about other guys.
If you’re interested in her and you’re not willing to give it up yet, maybe just push pause. Stop all interactions with her and come back to it later, in a couple of months, maybe check in.
I hope this is helpful to you. If you found it helpful, please give me a like or comment, and I will see you in the next video.
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Iona is a Wellness Coach specialising in relationships and dating. She works with single women to write their own love stories.